Sweetest Angel

Andrew & Lyla...my favorite photo (so far) of my loves...

The first few nights after we brought home Lyla from the hospital I kept finding this Jonatha Brooke song, "Sweetest Angel" stuck in my head....probably because I kept calling her (and still do) "my little angel."  I finally decided to download it (while I LOVE Jonatha, I wasn't a huge fan of this album, 'The Works,' so I didn't own any songs from it) and the words really do sound like a lullaby to baby.  So sweet.  Kinda makes me teary-eyed every time I listen to it now.  [Ah, postpartum hormones!]

Every night about eight o'clock

I wind the stem of my little clock

And when I look in the crystal glass

I see a lot of faces pass

Of those I knew

And those I know

And you now coming

And you to go

Here's a word I'd like to whisper

And I'd like to have you listen

All this world is made of love

You are fresh from heaven above

You're the sweetest angel in this world

You're the sweetest angel 

When I hold you by your hand

I'm in my happy promised land

When I kiss you in the dark

I'm just happy as a lark

So let me come as close as I can

And lay me down beside you

Here's a word I'd like to whisper

And I'd like to have you listen

All this world is made of love

You are fresh from heaven above

You're the sweetest angel in this world

You're the sweetest angel 

So let me come as close as I can

Let me bring my scattered pages

Let me lay down here beside you

Tonight, and I will whisper

All this world is made of love

You are fresh from heaven above

You're the sweetest angel in this world

You're the sweetest angel 

Hope you all have a lovely weekend!  I'll be spending mine with this little angel and couldn't be more happy about it!

xo 

Jayme

One month.

This morning I woke up to a bright eyed 4 week old baby girl.  Legs kicking, arms stretching above her head and even a little smile for daddy.

Not gonna lie….being a mom is HARD.  In the overall span of my pregnancy, labor and delivery and then the past month taking care of a baby, some things have been much harder than I thought.  Then again, some things have been much easier than I thought.

PREGNANCY—easy.

I got off to a rough start with awful morning sickness that I feared would last forever.  But once it went away, it was smooth sailing. 

LABOR/DELIVERY—easy. 

Ok, so I did have some medical assistance (ie—an epidural) that helped with the “ease” of labor and delivery.  I was scared that this would help with the pain of contractions but that I would still feel the often talked about “ring of fire” when the baby exited….but nope.  Just some pressure.  And an intense ab workout.  It really was kind of a relaxing day for us.

RECOVERY—hard.

Why is it that everybody talks about the pain of delivery but never speaks a word of the pain that comes afterwards??  I dreaded going pee.  And my muscles ached for days.  Ouch.

BREASTFEEDING—hard.

Honestly, breastfeeding is the most challenging thing I have ever done.  It’s painful and time consuming.  There’s a certain amount of anxiety, knowing that no matter how tired or sore you are, if your baby needs to eat, it’s your responsibility to feed her.  There’s also a sense of pride, knowing you’re the only one that can give her what she needs. My one word of advice to new moms is—use your own judgment.  Hold the baby how YOU feel comfortable, nurse her when she seems hungry, and let her eat till she’s done. (no photo available...haha)

SLEEPING—hard.

I always pictured laying the baby down in her bassinet (next to our bed) once she fell asleep at night.  Problem is—Lyla will immediately wake herself once she’s out of our arms.  And the few times we managed to lay her down without waking her, I couldn’t stop checking on her every other minute to make sure she was still breathing.  So we’ve resorted to what I never thought I’d do—co-sleeping.  The fear I thought I’d have of accidently rolling over onto her if she were in bed with us seems so silly now.  I love having her next to me (and admittedly I sleep close enough that I can hear her breathing…which makes things a ton more relaxing for me).   Our goal is to eventually transition her into the bassinet….we will see.

I still have so much to learn and get used to  but I am pretty proud of how our new little family has settled into a somewhat routine in the past month. 

Yes it is hard.  But I can’t wait to see what this little lady has in store for us in the months to come.

xo

Jayme

Cute Kids in Miskabelly!

Just noticed we received two adorable Appreciation Photos, which I couldn't not share. 

This cardigan was a "santa outfit" (but too bad it didn't help with the fear of the old bearded man):

And this dress was able to make an AMAZING Halloween costume!

Have a picture of your cutie in some Miskabelly duds?  We'd love to see them!

Have a fantastic weekend, everyone.

xo,

Amanda



Mama Goals for 2011

I do make resolutions for each new year, but I prefer to call them goals.  "Goals" sounds more attainable.  Smaller.  "Resolutions" are things like "stop smoking" and "lose 50 pounds." Way daunting, right?

This is my first brand new year as a mom (to an almost 1 year old!).  I took some time to look back at the past year, at myself as a wife, a mom, a business owner, a teacher, a woman, and set some goals to make this year better than the last. Here are ten little goals I have for myself.


Health/Fitness

I've been on Weight Watchers for 10 weeks now and so far, I've lost 10.6 pounds (holidays were a beast, but otherwise, it's been really great).  This pregnancy weight wasn't losing itself.  My biggest issue is mindless eating, especially working from home, so since WW values journaling, it's really the perfect plan for me. (I look forward to sharing progress and some healthy, family-friendly recipes on the blog this year!)

1.  Keep track of what I eat.  (WW Online Journal)
2. Drink more water. (I got a new water bottle for Christmas, with a straw!)
3. Move more.  (We got a Playstation Move AND Dance Dance Revolution for PS3 this Christmas, to keep me busy when it's too cold to walk/jog with Aurora and in the spring, Q and I are really started to start biking again with Aurora in tow!)

My Writing Life

I have an MFA in Creative Writing, which can get me occasional composition-teaching jobs, but hasn't gotten me published yet. (Not that I've tried to publish in over a year.) I am excited to be going to a conference in DC in February to be inspired by some HUGE writers. I am making my writing life a priority this year.
 






4.  Find a writing group or partner. (I need accountability! And inspiration.)
5.  Write. Whenever possible. (I'm trying to write a little in the morning during Aurora's first nap, before doing "real" work.)
6.  Submit to literary magazines or contests quarterly.  (I have a list going and some stories on hand that need revision).

Miskabelle and Miskabelly

Business is great, but I get a little overwhelmed sometimes.  It's a lot of work, but not enough to live off, and Jayme and I communicate and ship and blog and post in two different cities on the East coast.  We have some goals to improve the blogs this year, as well as to have more regular and repeat business in our Etsy shops.

6.  Keep a weekly schedule of blogging, posting, shipping. (I have a big white board in my office now.)

7.  Outfit posts on the blog. (I'd like to lose a little more weight, but I had a realization that my closet is really pretty awesome, and I need more excuses to get out of my pj's.)

Family/Motherhood

I love my daughter and husband more than anything, and even though they're last on this list, I really put them first.  We're all so busy that quality time is hard to come by--my main goal this year is to make that time for them (and some time with myself too!)

8.  Read to Aurora daily.  (She's really starting to enjoy books, and I love having special one on one time with her.)
9.  Connect with some moms in real life.  (Working from home can get lonely, and while virtual mom friends are great, I need some face to face time--and play dates!)
10.  Once a month date nights with Q.  (We're looking forward to a show at the end of this month--we both love live music--and time together, just us!)


Phew, that seemed like a long list!  What are your goals for this year?  We'd love to hear them!

Thanks so much for reading...

xo,
Amanda

Review: The First Years Happy Hippos Jet Stroller

We are thrilled to be able to partner with CSN.com for some reviews and giveaways this year.  I was in the market for a comfortable, lightweight stroller (the secondhand one we'd purchased only had a three point harness and Aurora did not seem to like it at all).  I perused the site and there were a lot of options for a lot of different mama lifestyles.

I also wanted a stroller that was reasonably priced (under $50) and lightweight.  So when I happened upon The First Years Happy Hippos Jet Stroller, I knew this was "the one."  It hits all of my needs AND it's adorable!

The stroller is only 11 pounds, even with the double sets of wheels. The brakes are extremely sturdy and easy to use. The seat is extra wide and even tilts back for long rides when your little one falls asleep.  The five point harness is safe and comfortable. The handles are extra long and softly cushioned.  Did I mention how cute the print is?! (It also comes in 5 other color schemes/patterns!)

As far as additional conveniences, I love the organizer on the handles--it has a zipper pocket and plenty of room for snacks and drinks.  My only disappointment with the stroller is the storage under the base.  There is not much room if your baby is sitting upright--only if they're tilted.

Otherwise, we have been using this stroller regularly (even out in the cold with our JJ Cole Bundle Me) and Aurora and I both love it:

 in the parking lot, on her way to do some thrifting with mama

 look at that smile--she loves it!

 the shade really comes in handy with the bright winter sun...

..and the harness is much cozier.

As far as my experience with CSN, I couldn't recommend the site enough.  The shipping was reasonable (and fast), they had a ton of options, a lot of information and comparisons about various strollers, and a TON of great prices on baby stuff.

Want to get your hands on this stroller (or other baby stuff from CSN)?  Stay tuned to the blog...

xo,

Amanda (&Aurora)

P.S.  We are open to reviewing any and all baby products for our readers on the blog if we think they would be beneficial--just drop us an email:  miskabelle  (at)  gmail  (dot) com.

  This review is completely my opinion in terms of the product and The First Years has not paid/sponsored me to review the stroller. This stroller was purchased through a CSN promo--the review of the company/site has been compensated.

Meet Lyla

Yesterday marked the 3 week birthday for my little Lyla Georgette.  The past 3 weeks have been incredible, joy-filled, surreal, and exhausting.  Andrew and I are truly overflowing with love for this girl.  I'm still working on getting on a "schedule" with her (right now it seems all she wants to do is eat and be held...which means I spend most of the day with a baby on my chest), but I wanted to take a quick minute to share some photos with you of our first 3 weeks with Lyla...

Here she is on her birthy-day!  Bright-eyed baby girl.

Bath time... (check out that curly hair!  It dries kind of spiky so she definitely has some "bad hair days"--but it's so cute!).  

This girl better get used to the camera.... Momma is a bit obsessed with taking photos of her everyday!  I just don't want to miss anything--she changes so much each day.

Momma and Daddy can't get enough of this girl!  I think we've gone cross-eyed from staring at her so much.  She is quite the accomplishment!

Hope you enjoyed the sneak peek at my past 3 weeks!  Aunt Amanda has been holding down fort at the shop (thanks sis!!) and we both hope to get back to regular blogging in the next couple of weeks and continue to bring you adorable vintage baby clothes.... hope you'll continue to follow us!

xo,

Jayme

Happy New (Baby) Year!

It's Amanda here, and it's been waaaaaaaaaaaay too long since we updated the blog or the shops, but we're BACK!

You know, we were kind of busy with all this:

 Lyla and her wild-haired mama

 the first time I got to hold my niece!

 Aurora meeting her new cousin/best friend--too cute.

 me (new haircut!), Q, and Aurora on Christmas Eve at my parents'

 home from the hospital, celebrating Christmas!

 her onesie says:  "good things come in small packages"

Just wanted to share a few pics of the newest Miskabelly babe and her beautiful mama, as well as share what's happening in the next few days--here and in the shop.

-Stroller Review and GIVEAWAY courtesy of CSN
-A little confession and new blog post:  I'm on week 8 of Weight Watchers (was keeping it a little secret until it started working. hehe.  But excited to share how it's going, my goals, and some yummy recipes I've been concocting. 10 pounds down, 20 to go.  Yikes!)
--HUGE shop update:  lots of 60s and 70s boy stuff.  Velour tops, flared pants and corduroys, vintage superhero tees, western shirts.  It's gonna be awesome!
--Upcoming SALE....stay tuned (follow our Twitter to find out the code!)

We've missed you!  Wishing everyone a happy, healthy, productive, beautiful 2011!  We can't wait to share it with all of you.

xo
Amanda  (&Jayme, if she had time to blog with a newborn)